After stroke, his personality has changed from loving and caring to impatient, and sometimes even aggressive.
This is difficult for the family members to take it, especially his wife who has been with him for over 40 years. But yet, they are still holding on and take care the patient for years. Facing with someone you loved that always scold you all the times, it is never easy.
In the middle of the session, I shared with the wife, saying that : "aunty, yesterday you cook something for uncle is it? He kept on mentioning about this, and feel very proud of it!"
Now I can see smile showed on her face, and it makes the session smooth afterward. Even though aunty felt hard to cope with the situation, but as long as she feels appreciation and loves, it is worth to fight for her love one. :-)
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