Touching Moment (30 June 16)

"It has been difficulty for you in these few weeks, I am glad that you have gone through this and get better."

He respond:" Of course, I will fight for my children's sake, my wife's sake, my sake, and... your sake."

Appreciate his motivation and kind thoughts. Hopefully his progress will be smoother. :)

今天之小感动（29 June 16)

对我而言，她是对工作很尽责的人，突然知道她被人指责说没完成特定事物，因而工作评估也受影响，深深为她感到不平。

她却笑着回我说:"没关系，这是上天给我的挑战，我相信上天会给我更好的安排。我仍然会把该做的事都做完的。"

欣赏她把逆境当成挑战，继续奋斗的精神。要学习不容易啊。。

今天之小感动（28 June 16)

没留意车后面的车牌掉了，也知道这是夜晚了，修车铺通常已经关了，只能赌赌运气，兜去可能掉车牌的地方找找看。

沿途战战兢兢，希望不会遇到警察叔叔，结果也没找到车牌，却意外发现。。。
还有修车铺开着！
就这样，有惊无险，又过一关。:）

Touching Moment (27 June 16)

Continuous rounds, counseling, and meetings made me drained after settle down everything. However, it's good to see things are progressing smoothly and positive comments to boost me go through the day.

While giving others, I am also getting strengths from others. :)

Touching Moment (26 June 16)

Life is sometimes routine and ordinary, but we can always make it slightly extraordinary by making a little surprise and make our love one smile. :)

Touching Moment (25 Jun 16)

Watched the movie "About time" twice in few days, alone and with others, and still find it a very great and touching movie. =D

There are few quotes as below I still feel it is very meaningful, as below:
"We're all traveling through time together, every day of our lives. All we can do is do our best to relish this remarkable ride."

"I'm not particularly proud of many things in my life, but I am very proud to be the father of my son."

"I just try to live everyday as if I've deliberately come back to this one, to enjoy it, as if it was the final full day of my extraordinary, ordinary life." =D

今天之小感动（24 June 16）

他们位高权重，却几乎每次都咄咄逼人，甚至讽刺谩骂。面对这样的病患和家属，少一些心理建设的话，久而久之也会心力交瘁啊。。@@

而今天，他的进展又不太顺利，和他们见面时，有了几个星期的经验，已经预期他们会再一次的讽刺谩骂。没想到，对方听了后，静了好些时候，回了我一句:"Keith, 我真的觉得很无助。。"

承受他们愤怒的几个星期后，他们才愿意摊开，那害怕失去他的心。。

今天之小感动（23 June 16）

再次探访他的时候，他爸爸不在，换了一个我之前没见过的陌生女生。

他看到我，笑着说:"爸爸回去了，换女朋友照顾我。"

老实说，他们年纪蛮轻，有点意外他们家人会觉得放心。不过看他们彼此的默契，或许就是他们的互相扶持，就算生病开刀也不离不弃的坚定，赢得家人们的信任吧？

愿他们可以一直扶持下去，祝福他们。 :）

Touching Moment (22 June 16)

A great phrase from Brene Brown:
"Yes, I am imperfect and vulnerable and sometimes afraid, but that doesn't change the truth that I am brave and worthy of love and belonging." :-)

今天之小感动（21 June 16)

"想当初，我老板从银行拿了一大笔钱，上车后我们给人跟踪，还好我机警，驾进附近有guard的工厂，然后。。。"

虽然他现在因为身体限制，没法完成太多事物，但是他的想当年，让他一生精彩，足以回味啊~

Touching Moment（18 June 16）

In our life, we always spend time to develop relationship with others. How much time does we spend to listen to ourselves, listen to the voice of inner child (Unihipili) which is deep inside our heart?

Listening and being with inner child doesn't mean immature, it is a chance for us to be creative, fun, amazing and happy.

Glad that I could have sometimes with him. ;)

Touching Moment (17 June 16)

"Morning, going up? which floor ya?" 

While I was in the lift, I smiled and greeted to some patients and families. While I went out from the lift, I overheard the conversation between the patients and families. 

"What a cheerful guy, it makes my day." 

Glad that my smile and greet can put a smile on others' face. You can give this gift too. ;)

Touching Moment (16 June 16)

In these few weeks, to respect Malay colleague during Puasa, I tried not to eat and drink in front of them.

My another colleague aware on that, and in these few weeks, she kept on bless me with lunch, so that I won't skip my lunch and have enough food. Appreciate her kind thoughts and moves. =D

Touching Moment (15 June 16）

During Puasa period, while I was doing my work, was surprised that my Malay colleague suddenly pass me a biscuit. And she said,

"I can sense that you are very stress now, I don't know what to do, just can pass you the biscuit to help you release the stress."

Well, she is so cute and kind. Hahaha

Touching Moment (14 June 16)

This is the first time I have seen this elderly patient. Suddenly in the middle of session, he asked me a question I don't know how to answer.

"My daughter is currently still single and available, do you have someone to introduce to her?"

I was totally blank for a while when listening to this question, but I know that this is a concern that he worry he can't take care of his daughter anymore after his operation.

PS: Feeling guilty for nearly laugh at the question when I heard of it. @@

今天之小感动（13 June 16）

当身边又有东西坏掉时，难免会有烦躁，要调整心情需要一定的功力啊。。

不过看身边的人比我更担心气愤，也让我的心暖暖的。
毕竟有人伤心着我的伤心，开心着我的开心啊... :-)

Touching Moment (12 June 16)

Very fortune to meet an aunty who always bless me and my friends. It reminds me that it is a blessing if we are able to put a smile on other's face. 

Remind myself to pay it forward. =) 

Touching Moment (11 June 16)

"Life teaches us all we need to know, but it is our responsibilities to choose how to respond to it."

Love this phrase heard from video sharing. Life teaches us lessons, but it also depends on us whether we want to learn from it and grow to become a better person.

It is a good reminder to myself. =)

Touching Moment (10 June 16)

This phrase still wondering in my mind even after a few days, as a reminder to myself, sounded like:

"We keep fighting, not to change the world, but so that the world does not change us."
（我们一路奋战，不是为了改变世界，而是不让这世界改变我们。）

As long as we still have someone who fight for truth and love, there is still hope in this world. :-)

今天之小感动（9 June 16)

端午节，虽不在家乡，但有家人温馨电话，加上和好友们一起相聚，聊聊天，吃吃粽子，倒也写意。 :-)

PS:也祝我爸爸生日快乐 :-P

今天之小感动 (8 June 16)

"世上最珍贵的东西，一些时候是 听不见看不清的，只有用心才能感受得到。”

这句话，让我想起了之前想的一句话。
“缺乏发现美的眼睛，世界再大都一样。” =)

Touching Moment (7 Jun 16)

In the lift, on the way going to meet a patient, I pressed the button, smiles and greet the guests who came in, and have a small chat with them.

Before they went out, one of the guests said to me:" Budaya you amat best, I salute you la."

Well, I guest our CFC (Customer Focus Culture) worked. Feel good to put a smile on other faces too. =)

Touching Moment（5 Jun 16）

Even though I prefer some other movies, "You before Me" has some quotes circulating in my mind. As below: 

“Some mistakes... Just have greater consequences than others. But you don't have to let the result of one mistake be the thing that defines you. You, Clark, have the choice not to let that happen.” 

“I will never, ever regret the things I've done. Because most days, all you have are places in your memory that you can go to.” 

“Don't think of me too often. I don't want to think of you getting all maudlin. Just live well.
Just live.” 

And I wish all of us, live well. =) 

Touching Moment (4 June 16)

When I went out from the ward, I saw a girl aged around 8 years old sitting at the floor alone, together with a big plastic bag.

Concern about her safety, I walked there to ask about her guardian and how long she was there alone. Then I get the information that her father was in the ward together with her brother, who is a patient in hospital. The issue is, she was left inattentive more than 15 minutes, and anything can happen to her during this period. @@

Thankful there are some security guards around to help to keep an eyes on the girl, so that I could try to seek for the father to take care of the girl.

I don't blame the father's action as I knew he has his own difficulties to take care of several children, especially some of them are sick. However, I did hope that all the parents can take extra precaution especially on the children's safety, especially there are several sad news that happened recently in Malaysia.

Lastly, appreciate the security guards and staffs in helping me to safeguard on the girl while I tried to search for the father. Hopefully together we can make the world a better place. =)

Touching Moment ( 3 June 16)

Last few days, the husband was in pain after surgery, even with the helps of medication. The wife appeared very anxious and express helplessness in this incident. Thus, I assisted them to manage their emotions and situations, and emphasized on the self care for the wife as well.

After a few days, both of them appeared much better in terms of emotions management. While having individual session with husband, he expressed appreciation to me for helping the wife to manage her emotions. He said:"I know she care about me and wish me to get better soon, but when I saw her getting stress and helpless, it affects me as well."

"In these few days, she appeared calmer, which helps to foster my recovery as well as I have less worry over her situation too. Thanks for helping us."

It is good to have our love one to support and care on us. However, we also need to achieve the balance point: Too much care sometimes is a stressor to others, and while caring for others, we need to take care of ourselves too. ;)

Touching Moment (2 Jun 16)

Can't go back home due to rain, I go back to office and continue to do some stuffs. Suddenly, received a call from ward. A patient just had sudden cardiac arrest and passed away.

Appreciate the nurses for calling to support the family. At least can help him to sort out what to do and keep him company for a while.

Probably the rain that stopped me from going home, is to let me stay in the hospital for a while and continue to serve who in needs. :-)

今天之小感动（1 June 16)

暴风雨中，仍然驾车出去，比意外中更塞车。于是转回头，想用令一条路到达目的地，却发现我来的哪条路居然树倒了！前后不到半个小时啊~

转念来说，还好我安全避开塞车，甚至树倒在我车的状况！ 感恩，避开一劫啊~